"Gender and Sexuality: How Can I Show up as an Ally?"
I have always been a very self-aware person- self-aware with who I am, others around me, and how others act, and how I react to them. Since I was in sixth grade, I have always had friends part of the LGBTQ+ community before I even knew there was such a community that existed. I did not even know being gay was a label, just like being straight was a label. I thought people were just people who liked who they liked and that was that. One day, a girl came up to me and told me, "People keep saying you're a lesbian." Confused, I asked her, "What's that?" She said, "it's a girl who likes girls" and I said "so what? I do like girls. Don't you?" Of course, I was thinking of friendships with girls. She continues to say, "No, it's a girl who likes to kiss and date girls." I shrugged my shoulders and said, "Okay, what's wrong with being a lesbian? Even though I am not one." She looked at me confused as though sh...